Today- June 21, 2013, I turned another year older.. and looking back at the year that just passed I can say that just like Loida, I also turned into Valerie Version 2.0: wiser, braver, stronger and more patient and understanding. Just like the past, the whole year too had its share of laughter and tears. Me being 30 taught me a lot of things. I learned how to be a better mother, a better spouse and these realizations made me a better woman inside and out because now, I am happier than ever.
As a mother. I became more responsible. I became less paranoid because before every time they would get sick I would always end up forcing my husband to bring our child to the Emergency Room because I get all rattled when they get sick. But now I learned how to do first aid. I know what and what not to give them when they are not feeling well. I enjoy being a mother now because my kids now play with each other, they communicate with each other and its easier that they also grew. For this year, my goal is to make sure that I teach them well in terms of: manners, religion and faith, kindness, sharing and loving.
As a wife. I would admit to you that I am a perfect example of a nagger. I would get so easily annoyed when my husband spends less time with me and more time at work and with friends. I had demands which were hard to meet and I pressured him to meet those demands. But one day I woke up and realized that I was wrong. I made some changes and practiced selfless love just for the sake of saving my marriage, and it worked. Now my husband and I understand each other, we respect each other, we honor one another and we are happily married.
As a career woman. I am blessed with the job i have now. I really enjoy what I do. I have a wonderful boss who is very compassionate. I have colleagues who respect me even if I am the latest addition to their team. I am thankful that I learned how to balance work and family.
As a daughter. My relationship with my daddy has improved. When i have worries I can right away tell him without any hesitations. My mama and I are closer than ever. We share problems and help each other if we can. I miss them both dearly.
I have really nothing more to ask for. I feel complete. Thank you God for this wonderful blessing of life. I lift everything to you Dear God. I cannot express in words my gratitude and happiness.
